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To give scandal is a great fault, but to take scandal is a greater
fault. It implies a greater amount of wrongness in ourselves, and it
does a greater amount of mischief to others.
Nothing gives scandal sooner than a quickness to take scandal. This is
worth our consideration. For I find great numbers of moderately good
people who think it fine to take scandal. They regard it as a sort of
evidence of their own goodness, and of their delicacy of conscience;
while in reality it is only a proof either of their inordinate conceit
or of their extreme stupidity. They are unfortunate when this latter is
the case; for then no one but inculpable nature is to blame. If, as
some have said, a stupid man cannot be a Saint, at least his stupidity
can never make him into a sinner. Moreover, the persons in question
seem frequently to feel and act as if their profession of piety
involved some kind of official appointment to take scandal. It is their
business to take scandal. It is their way of bearing testimony to God.
It would show a blamable inertness in the spiritual life if they did
not take scandal. They think they suffer very much while they are
taking scandal; whereas in truth they enjoy it amazingly. It is a
pleasurable excitement, which delightfully varies the monotony of
devotion. They do not in reality fall over their neighbour's fault, nor
does it in itself hinder them in the way of holiness, nor do they love
God less because of it, ---- all which ought to be implied in taking
scandal. But they trip themselves up on purpose, and take care that it
shall be opposite some fault of their neighbour’s, in order that they
may call attention to the difference between him and themselves.
There are certainly many legitimate causes for taking scandal, but none
more legitimate than the almost boastful facility of taking scandal
which characterizes many so-called religious people. The fact is that
an immense proportion of us are Pharisees. For one pious man who makes
piety attractive, there are nine who make it repulsive. Or, in other
words, only one out of ten among reputed spiritual persons is really
spiritual. He who during a long life has taken the most scandal has
done the most injury to God's glory, and has been himself a real and
substantial stumbling-block in the way of many. He has been an endless
fountain of odious disedification to the little ones of Christ. If such
a one reads this, he will take scandal at me. Everything that he
dislikes, every thing which deviates from his own narrow view of
things, is to him a scandal. It is the Pharisaic way of expressing a
difference.
Men marvellously like to be popes; and the dullest of men, if only he
has, as usual, an obstinacy proportioned to his dullness, can in most
neighbourhoods carve out a tiny papacy for himself; and if to his
dullness he can add pomposity, he may reign gloriously, a little local
ecumenical council in unintermitting session through all the four
seasons of the year. Who has time enough, or heart enough, or hope
enough, to try to persuade such men? They are not sufficiently
interesting to us to be worth our persuading. Let us leave them alone
with their glory and their happiness. Let us try to persuade ourselves.
Do not we ourselves take scandal too often? Let us examine the matter
and see.
Now, here is a thing which I have often thought upon. Certainly no one
can remember every thing in the voluminous lives of the Saints; for it
would take a lifetime to read them all. But I do not remember to have
read of any Saint who ever took scandal. If this is even approximately
true, the question is decided at once. Big men, swollen with
self-importance, who see the faults of others with eyes of lynxes, and
criticize them with clever sarcasms, and delight in the pedantry of a
judicial frame of mind, can only humorously apply to themselves the
name of the little ones of Christ. Yet books tell us there are two
kinds of scandal, ---- the scandal of the little ones of Christ, and
the scandal of Pharisees. It follows, then, that these men must be
Pharisees. But I say that, if this remark about the Saints is even
approximately true, it must give us a check, and make us very
thoughtful, if we are earnest men, although we are not Saints, and what
belongs to Saints is by no means safely applicable to us in all
respects. Let us suppose it not to be strictly true. Let us suppose it
only a rare thing for Saints to take scandal. We can draw a
sufficiently broad conclusion from this to be very practical to
ourselves. For we may infer that it is a matter about which persons
aiming at being spiritual are not sufficiently careful. Every time we
take scandal we run a great risk of sinning, and a manifold risk as
well as a great one. We run the risk of impairing God's glory, of
dishonouring our Blessed Lord, of giving substantial scandal to others,
of breaking the precept of charity ourselves, of highly-culpable
indiscretion, and, at the very least, of grieving the Holy Spirit in
our own souls. Here is enough to make it worth our while to inquire.
Let us see, first of all, how much evil the habit of taking scandal
implies. It implies a quiet pride, which is altogether unconscious how
proud it is. Pride is the denial of the spiritual life. Spiritual pride
means that we have no spiritual life, but the possession of that evil
spirit instead of it. Pride is hard enough to manage even when we are
conscious of it; but a pride which has no self-consciousness is a very
desperate thing. It often seems as if grace could only get at it
through a fall into serious sin, which will awake its consciousness and
at the same moment turn it into shame. Now, the habit of taking scandal
indicates that worst sort of pride, a pride which believes itself to be
humility. Any thing like a habit of taking scandal implies also a fund
of uncharitableness deep down in us, which grace and interior
mortification have either not reached, or failed to influence. If we
pay attention to ourselves, we shall find that, contemporaneously with
the scandal we have taken, there has been some wounded feeling or other
in an excited state within us. When we are in good humour, we do not
take scandal. It is an act which is not for the most part accompanied
by kindness. A genuine gentle sorrow for the person offending is
neither the first thought nor the predominant thought in our minds when
we take the offence. It is the offspring generally of an unkindly mood.
Sometimes, indeed, it springs from moroseness, brought on by assuming a
seriousness which does not become us because it is not simple. We
precipitate ourselves into recollection, and find that we have fallen
over head and ears into sullenness. Neither can taking scandal be very
frequent with us without its implying also a formed habit of judging
others. With a really humble or a naturally genial person the instinct
of judging others is overlaid and, as it were, weighted with other and
better qualities. It has to exert itself and make an effort before it
can get to the surface and assert itself; whereas it lies on the
surface, obvious, ready, prompt, and predominating, in a man who is
given to taking scandal. Is it often allowable to judge our neighbour?
Surely we know it to be the rarest thing possible. Yet we cannot take
scandal without, first, forming a judgment; secondly, forming an
unfavourable judgment; thirdly, deliberately entertaining it as a
motive power inclining us to do or to omit something; and, fourthly,
doing all this for the most part in the subject matter of piety, which
in nine cases out of ten our obvious ignorance withdraws from our
jurisdiction.
It also indicates a general want of an interior spirit. The
supernatural grace of an interior spirit, among its other effects,
produces the same results as the natural gift of depth of character;
and to this it joins the ingenious sweetness of charity. A thoughtless
or a shallow man is more likely to take scandal than any other. He can
conceive of nothing but what he sees upon the surface. He has but
little self-knowledge, and hardly suspects the variety or complication
of his own motives. Much less, then, is he likely to divine in a
discerning way the hidden causes, the hidden excuses, the hidden
temptations, which may lie, and always do lie, behind the actions of
others. So it is in spiritual matters with a man who has not an
interior spirit. There is not only a rashness, but also a coarseness
and vulgarity, about his judgments of others. Sometimes he only sees
superficially. This is if he is a stupid man. If he is a clever man, he
sees deeper than the truth. His vulgarity is of the subtle kind. He
puts things together which had no real connection in the conduct of his
neighbour. Base himself, he suspects baseness in others. If he saw a
Saint, he would think him either ambitious, opinionated, or
hypocritical. He sees plots and conspiracies even in the most impulsive
of characters. He cannot judge of character at all. He can only project
his own possibilities of sin into others, and imagine that to be their
character which he feels, if grace were withdrawn from him, would be
his own. He judges as a man judges whose reason is slightly unsettled.
He is cunning rather than discerning. To clever men charity is almost
impossible if they have not an interior spirit.
We shall also find that, when we fall into the way of taking scandal,
there is something wrong about our meditations. There are times when
our meditations are inefficacious. With some men it is so nearly all
through their lives. The fact is, that the habit of meditation will not
by itself make us interior. When a man's spiritual life is reduced to
the practice of daily meditation, we see that he soon loses all control
over his tongue, his temper, and his wounded feelings. His morning's
meditation is inadequate to the sweetening of his whole day. It is too
feeble to detain the presence of God in his soul until evening. Like
general intentions, it has theological possibilities which are hardly
ever practical realities. It is like a shrub planted in the clay; if we
do not dig around it and let in the air and moisture, it will not grow.
Its growth is stunted and impeded. This is a perilous state of things,
when our meditation is but an island in a day which is otherwise
flooded with worldliness and comfort. For we must remember that comfort
is one of the worst kinds of worldliness, and is most at home in our
own rooms, at a distance from the gay, noisy, and dissipated world. We
are not far from some serious mishap when mortification and examination
of conscience have deserted our meditation and left it to itself. A
habit of taking scandal often reveals to us that we are in this state,
or are fast tending to it.
It also poisons much else that is good, and desecrates holy things,
almost making them positively unholy. It infuses somewhat of
censoriousness into our intercessory prayer. It turns our spiritual
reading into a silent preachment to others. It charms away the arrows
of the preacher from ourselves, and aims them with a pleased skill at
others whom we have in our mind's eye. It plays into the hands of
whatever is unkindly and unlovely in our natural dispositions; and it
makes our very spirituality unspiritual by making it uncharitable. All
this complicated evil it implies as already existing in us; and it
fosters and increases it all for the future, while it is implying it in
the present. It is plain, therefore, that it would be well for us to
take scandal at our taking scandal, seeing what a degrading revelation
it is to us of our own misery and meanness. We are aiming at a devout
life. We have only just extricated ourselves from the swamps of mortal
sin. We know something of the ways of grace. We have the models of the
Saints. We are more or less familiar with the teaching of spiritual
writers. We are not obliged, either because of our ignorance or because
of our weakness, to look to the conduct of others as the rule of our
own. Hence, in our case, taking scandal is neither more nor less than
judging, and we must treat the temptation to it as we would treat any
other temptation against charity, ---- namely, check it, punish it,
detest it, resolve against it, and accuse ourselves of it in
confession. We must beware also of its artifices. For it has many
tricks, and they are often successful. Masters, parents, and directors
are quite familiar with a device of those under their care and control,
and who criticize, suggestively at least, their government or
direction: this trick consists in their accusing themselves of having
taken scandal at the conduct of their superiors and directors. It is
ingenious, but soon wears out. Directors learn early to stifle their
own curiosity, and not allow their self-deluded critics to tell them
what has scandalized them, as they cannot even listen to it without
compromising their dignity and forfeiting their influence. In a word,
we shall find it the truest and the safest conclusion to come to, that
we must regard the temptation to take scandal as wholly and
unmitigatedly evil, a temptation to which no quarter should be allowed,
and to whose eloquent pleadings of delicacy of conscience no audience
should be given but that of calm contempt.
Now that we have considered the existing evil which a readiness to take
scandal implies in us, we may consider the way in which it hinders us
in the attainment of perfection. It hinders us in the acquisition of
self-knowledge. Watchfulness over ourselves is nothing short of an
actual mortification. We eagerly lay hold of the slightest excuse for
turning our attention away from ourselves, and the conduct of others is
the readiest object to which we turn. No one is so blind to his own
faults as a man who has the habit of detecting the faults of others. It
also causes us to stand in our own light. We ourselves actually
intercept the sunshine which would fall on our own souls. A man who is
apt to take scandal is never a blithe or a genial man. He has never a
clear light round about him. He is not made for happiness; and was ever
a melancholy man made into a Saint? A downcast man is raw material
which can only be manufactured into a very ordinary Christian.
Moreover, if we have any sort of earnestness about us, our taking
scandal must at last become a source of scruples to us. If it is not
quite the same thing as censoriousness, who shall draw the line between
them? We know very well that it is not at our best times that we take
scandal, and it must dawn upon us by degrees that it is so often
contemporary with a state of spiritual malady that the coincidence can
hardly be accidental. At the same time, the act is so intrinsically
ungenerous in itself that it tends to destroy all generous impulses in
ourselves. No one can be generous with God who has not a great, broad
love of his neighbour.
Furthermore, it destroys our influence with others. We irritate where
we ought to enliven. To be suspected of want of sympathy is to be
disabled as an apostle. He who is critical will necessarily be
unpersuasive. Even in literature, what department of it is less
persuasive, and thus less influential, than that of criticism? Men are
amused by it, but they do not form their judgments on it. There are few
things in the literary world more striking than the little weight of
criticism compared with the amount and the ability of it. We like to
find fault ourselves; but we are never attracted to another man who
finds fault. It is the last refuge of our good humour that we like to
have a monopoly censure, Then, again, this habit entangles us in a
hundred self-raised difficulties about fraternal correction, that rock
of narrow souls; for a man's presumption is mostly in proportion to his
narrowness. Men awake sometimes, and find that they have almost
unconsciously worked themselves into a false position. This is a
terrible affair in spirituality, It is harder to work ourselves right
than to recover our balance after a sin. Yet the supposed obligation of
fraternal correction is always enticing us into false positions. It
also calls our attention off from God, and fixes them with a sort of
diseased earnestness upon earthly miseries and pusillanimities. It is
bad enough to look off from God by looking too much on ourselves; but
to look off from God in order to look upon our neighbours, is a greater
evil still. It deranges the whole interior world of thought, upon which
the exercise of charity so much depends. It hinders us in acquiring the
government of the tongue. It prevents our succeeding in good works
where zealous and free co-operation with others is needed. It is the
cloak which jealousy is forever assuming and calling it by the name of
caution. Finally, we think all these things virtues, while they are in
reality vices of the most unamiable description.
I do not think I have exaggerated the evil of this quickness to take
scandal. I confess it is a fault which vexes me more than many others,
and for many reasons. Its victims are good men, men full of promise,
and whose souls have been the theatres of no inconsiderable operations
of grace. It seizes them for the most part, just at the time when
higher attainments seem opening to them. Its peculiarity is, that it is
incompatible with the higher graces of the spiritual life, that it
defiles that which was now almost cleansed, and vulgarizes that which
was on the point of establishing its title to nobility. When we
consider how many are called to perfection, and how few are perfect,
may we not almost say that we do well to be angry with that evil which
so opportunely and so effectually mars the work of grace?
In what does perfection consist? In a childlike, short-sighted charity;
charity which believes all things; in a grand supernatural conviction
that every one is better than ourselves; in estimating far too low the
amount of evil in the world; in looking far too exclusively on what is
good; in the ingenuity of kind constructions; in an inattention, hardly
intelligible, to the faults of others; in a graceful perversity of
incredulousness about scandals, which sometimes in the Saints runs
close upon being a scandal of itself. This is perfection; this is the
temper and genius of Saints and saint-Iike men. It is a life of desire,
oblivious of earthly things. It is a radiant, energetic faith that
man's slowness and coldness will not interfere with the success of
God's glory. Yet all the while it is instinctively fighting, by prayer
and reparation, against evils, which it will not allow itself
consciously to believe. No shadow of moroseness ever falls over the
bright mind of a Saint. It is not possible that it should do so.
Finally, perfection has the gift of entering into the universal Spirit
of God, Who is worshipped in so many different ways, and is content.
Now, is not all this just the very opposite of the temper and spirit of
a man who is apt to take scandal? The difference is so plain that it is
needless to comment on it. He is happy who on his dying bed can say,
"No one has ever given me scandal in my life!" He has either not seen
his neighbour's faults, or, when he saw them, the sight had to reach
him through so much sunshine of his own that they did not strike him so
much as faults to blame, but rather as reasons for a deeper and a
tenderer love.
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